We have all experienced the feeling of liberation from conventionality and societal norms when on vacation. This is true on vanilla vacations where you might have tried an adventure sport like skydiving or scuba diving that you might never have dared at home. Or even something as pedestrian as eating food which would never normally pass your lips- and not only enjoying it, but relishing it.

Ok, so imagine that freedom from the conventionality of inhibition, throw in a lack of clothing and then mix it with a healthy dose of sexual electricity and- poof! -you have the lifestyle resorts that many have come to know and love; and others dream of.

For many couples, resorts like Hedonism, Desire & Caliente Caribe, or specialty trips like lifestyle cruises and hotel takeovers, are their first foray into the “Lifestyle”. There is a very good reason for this: thrust into the open and erotic atmosphere of these venues and freed from conventionality, this is often the first time couples will let down their guards and inhibitions sufficiently enough to release long held repression and open themselves up to experiencing the truly sexual side of their minds and relationship.

For the uninitiated it is thrilling to discovering a whole new and exciting side of your relationship that is enhanced and strengthened. This often begins a more intimate journey into exploring your relationship and enjoying new adventures together.

So what makes it healthy? There are a number of things that we hear from our travelers which create an anecdotal picture of this experience.

For many couples, this first exploration represents a monumental leap in the level of communication they have as a couple in their relationship and as both individuals AND a couple in their sexuality. For those that go regularly it is like a booster shot keeping their relationship healthy and strong.

It is funny how many (particularly vanilla) couples who spend their years working, raising families and building their lives rarely or never discuss their relationship, particularly as it relates to sex. This lack of communication about the most basic human emotions and need can often be the proverbial elephant in the room of a relationship. Exploring your sexuality together, in an open and adventurous way puts this discussion front and center. I cannot tell you the number of travelers that have told us how their lifestyle vacation brought them closer together and energized their romance.

Another benefit is that this is a safe environment. You are away from your home town and normal circle of friends. As a matter of fact, unless you go as part of a takeover with a local club, you will likely not know anyone nor will they know you. This anonymity provides a buffer to allow you to explore in a safe and relaxed environment.

Finally, you are there to enjoy yourselves, so your mental and physical receptors are already relaxed and open to new input. There is a built-in willingness, and even an expectation, to experience new things.

So next time you are thinking about booking a lifestyle vacation think of it as a way to energize your already loving relationship. It’s just what the doctor ordered!..although I will have to admit, I have not been able to find a health insurance policy yet that will cover it.