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Media Update – Atlanta Eagle - Sunday, 14 March 2010, 8:02 am

Judge: Atlanta Eagle defendants ‘not guilty’ The Atlanta Journal-Constitution An Atlanta judge found three defendants in the Atlanta Eagle gay bar case not guilty Thursday, and the prosecutor agreed to dismiss the charges against the other five defendants. Municipal Judge Crystal Gaines said city police failed to produce evidence proving that men danced naked without permits or that [...]

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Q&A: More Anal Sex… How To Clean Up Afterward (Video) - Sunday, 14 March 2010, 7:00 am

It’s a fact – anal sex can get messy. Whether you ejaculate in the anus during anal sex or not, you’ll still want to clean up afterward. Preventing the spread of bacteria and keeping yourself comfortably clean are important after anal sex. Here’s how you can clean up afterward so you can have fun before! Question: I [...] Related articles:Q&A: Anal Sex – How To Keep It Clean And Safe (Video) What Is The REAL Truth About Anal Sex? (Video) What You Need To Know. […]

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A Little Thought Experiment - Saturday, 13 March 2010, 9:36 am

Let’s supposed that next month scientists create something that Is a 99.999999% effective method of birth control Kills spirochetes, gonococci and the HVH, HIV and HPV viruses Is 100% safe and reversible Some of the results would be: Unwanted pregnancies would disappear STIs would disappear Demand for abortion would disappear People’s only determining factor in their sex lives would be their own personal moral choices Every pro-choice person I know would only take a break from celebrating to. […]

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The Truth About The Prostate Gland - Saturday, 13 March 2010, 7:31 am

You may have heard of a prostate gland, a gland inside a man’s body that is capable of providing him with great pleasure when stimulated, also known as prostate massage or prostate milking. The prostate is hard to get to though – it can sometimes be lightly stimulated by a firm touch underneath a man’s scrotum but usually [...] Related articles:Pleasing Your Partner With A Strap On Are Anal Sex Toys Safe? (Video) What You Need To Know About Anal Sex Toys (Video) What Is The. […]

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You’re The Top - Friday, 12 March 2010, 1:44 pm

Hey sex fans, It’s Product Review Friday once again. And today we are lucky enough to have another LELO treasure for you to admire. Dr Dick Review Crew member, Brad discovers the meaning of a Pleasure Object. BILLY —— $129.00 Brad DAMN, this is the most expensive sex toy…I mean Pleasure Object I’ve ever seen. Before I got [...]

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BILLY by LELO - Friday, 12 March 2010, 1:43 pm

Hey sex fans, It’s Product Review Friday once again. And today we are lucky enough to have another LELO treasure for you to admire. Dr Dick Review Crew member, Brad discovers the meaning of a Pleasure Object. BILLY —— $129.00 Brad DAMN, this is the most expensive sex toy…I mean Pleasure Object I’ve ever seen. Before I got [...]

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Media Update - Thursday, 11 March 2010, 12:22 pm

He Who Casts the First Stone Texas Observer   … So imagine the swingers’ surprise when they arrived at their New Year’s Eve bash to find two dozen protesters, local media in tow, holding signs and singing songs. This was a most unwelcome coming-out party. …

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Q&A: How Can You Tell If He’s Circumcised – Visually? (Video) - Thursday, 11 March 2010, 6:00 am

If you’ve never seen a circumcised penis before, it can be difficult to tell whether a penis is circumcised or not just by looking at it. There are, however, a few key features that a uncircumcised penis has that are different from a circumcised penis. Here’s how you can tell them apart. Question: How can someone tell [...]

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Sex Wisdom with Jesús Ángel García – Podcast #191 – 03/10/10 - Wednesday, 10 March 2010, 7:07 am

Hey sex fans, Ok, so here’s the deal. As you know, I’m all about bringing you the very best interviews I can for all my podcast series. Not to long ago I hooked up with this exceptional author who I think is absolutely perfect for The Erotic Mind series. But midway through our [...]

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Perspective of an Intelligent Single Unicorn - Tuesday, 9 March 2010, 6:59 pm

A friend of mine, who is drop dead gorgeous and Ivy league educated with a high powered career recently sent me an article she wanted to publish.  She is also a regular at BCD and XXXtreme Events, and she has attended events both as part of a couple and more recently as a single female.No strings attached sex is all I want.  As a single female, I don’t want to get involved in your relationship.  I don’t want to go home with you.  I want really hot, orgasm-inducing sex in the. […]

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What To Do If You Think You’ve Been Raped - Tuesday, 9 March 2010, 6:00 am

Whether you’ve been violently raped or have been a victim of date rape drugs and aren’t sure what happened, being raped is a frightening experience and many women just aren’t sure what to do afterwards. Here’s what you need to do if you’ve been raped or think you’ve been raped, so you can begin the [...] Related articles:What Are Date Rape Drugs? What Is Date Rape? What Is YOUR Plan B? The Truth About Emergency Contraception Top 10 Contraception MYTHS Q&A. […]

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The Erotic Mind of Rob Clarke — Podcast #190 — 03/08/10 - Monday, 8 March 2010, 7:25 am

Hey sex fans, Today we continue The Erotic Mind series. Only instead of a literary artist, like the last couple of weeks, we have an immensely talented visual artist joining us. I have the pleasure of introducing you to Rob Clarke. As you know, for nearly two years now I’ve been chatting with noted erotic [...]

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Q&A: How Do I Tell My Parents I’m Bisexual? (Video) - Sunday, 7 March 2010, 6:00 am

Discovering that you’re bisexual is one thing, but telling your parents is another! The thought of telling your parents that you’re bisexual or even gay is frightening. How will they react? Will they become angry or will they accept you? Here’s how you can tell your parents about your sexual orientation, regardless of what their [...] Related articles:Is It Wrong To Be Bisexual? Should I Explore My Sexuality? (Video) Should I Tell My Parents I’m Gay? (Video) Q&A: Sho. […]

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Well then… - Friday, 5 March 2010, 10:16 am

Name: Stanford Gender: male Age: 25 Location: Green Bay I was wondering if you have any suggestions for a homemade dildo? Do you actually want to craft a dildo yourself? Or is this more a question about what might be readily available to safely bugger yourself with? If you want to make one yourself, there are several “Make-your-own-dildo” kits out [...]

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We Popped a Cherry! - Friday, 5 March 2010, 8:28 am

Before we left Houston, we had the amazingly good fortune of meeting a super cute couple at Temptation Lounge.  He was built much like hubby, naturally toned, short hair, and a very nice demeanor.  She was hot little blonde, with great curves.  They both came off a bit shy, but very nice too.  Although it [...]

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Media Update - Thursday, 4 March 2010, 7:55 am

Leather and muscles and bears, oh my! Western Courier (subscription) For those of you who don’t know, S&M stands for sadomasochism, the act of delivering and receiving pain as a form of pleasure. …

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Jeremy Edwards does Dr Dick! - Thursday, 4 March 2010, 7:36 am

Hey sex fans, Get a load of this! The delightfully entertaining master of erotica, Jeremy Edwards, talks trash with Dr Dick on his site — HERE. (I guess this is his way of getting back at me for all the nice things I’ve done for him. Like I always say, no good deed goes [...]

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What Are Date Rape Drugs? - Thursday, 4 March 2010, 6:00 am

Rape has been around for centuries – but date rape drugs haven’t. Recently, date rape drugs have become more popular among rapists and even seemingly regular guys, because it allows them to silently slip a drug into a girl’s drink to incapacitate them. Many girls who have been given date rape drugs are completely knocked [...] Related articles:What Is Date Rape? All In Good Fun – Or Date Rape? (Video) What To Do If You Think You’ve Been Raped What Does Your Drink Sa. […]

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Mark Zedler, Part 2 – Podcast #189 – 03/03/10 - Wednesday, 3 March 2010, 8:00 am

Hey sex fans, We’re back with sex historian, Mark Zedler, and more of his fascinating SEX WISDOM. This is Part 2 of our enlightening conversation about some of our culture’s sexual taboos. If you somehow missed Part 1 of this thought-provoking expose, which premiered at this time last week, you’ll find it in the podcast archive [...]

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The Mystery Zone – Houston - Wednesday, 3 March 2010, 7:40 am

Well, I know it’s been a while since I’ve posted anything.  We’ve been really busy with our latest move.  We had a great time in Houston, where the lifestyle scene is absolutely amazing!  Anyway, I updated my club reviews page with a review of  The Mystery Zone.  Enjoy! The Mystery Zone (i.e., TMZ) is one of [...]

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Q&A: How Do I Ask Him If He’s A Virgin Without Offending Him? (Video) - Wednesday, 3 March 2010, 6:00 am

When in a new relationship with someone, it’s tempting to ask about your partner’s sexual past, especially if you’re a virgin. Should you? Yes – it can help you know more about your partner and help assess your risk for contracting a sexually transmitted disease. But it’s not exactly the easiest issue to bring up [...] Related articles:Are You Ready For Sex? (You Don’t Have To Be A Virgin To Answer This Question) I’m A Virgin – Will My Big Penis Hu. […]

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Q&A: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Like When I Touch Her G-Spot (Video) - Tuesday, 2 March 2010, 6:00 am

Finding a woman’s g-spot and learning how to give her pleasure can make your sex life hotter, but what if your partner doesn’t like g-spot stimulation? Does it mean that you are doing something wrong, or that your partner just doesn’t like having her g-spot stimulated? Here’s what you can do if your partner doesn’t dig [...] Related articles:Sex Tip: How To Find The G-Spot (Video) 3 Things All Men Need To Know About The G-Spot eXtreme Sex Ed: I Feel Like I Have To. […]

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Media Update - Monday, 1 March 2010, 7:28 am

Sexual Innuendo & Cigarettes Make For Disturbing Ads Inventorspot Instead, it associates smoking with slavery, sadomasochism, domination, pedophilia, and bland 1970s design. I’m kidding about the last part. …

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Aunt Becky, Part 2 — Podcast #188 — 03/01/10 - Monday, 1 March 2010, 7:22 am

Hey sex fans, Becky Sherrick Harks, as her affable alter ego Aunt Becky, is back with more of what makes her the treasured sex writer, essayist and author of the wildly popular blog, Mommy Wants Vodka. This is Part 2 of our conversation for The Erotic Mind podcast series. Part 1 of our chat, which appeared [...]

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What Is Date Rape? - Monday, 1 March 2010, 6:00 am

When we think of rape, our minds automatically drift to a stranger crouching low in a dark alleyway as he waits for a girl – a runner, a student walking home from class, a woman unloading groceries from her car. It doesn’t matter to him who it is. But there is more than one kind [...] Related articles:What Are Date Rape Drugs? All In Good Fun – Or Date Rape? (Video) What To Do If You Think You’ve Been Raped What To Do When He Doesn’t Call After Your First Date…. […]

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Q&A: Is My Boyfriend Only In It For The Sex? (Video) - Sunday, 28 February 2010, 6:00 am

When you’re in a sexual relationship with someone, things can get complicated. Lots of questions can come up, and many of them can be difficult to discuss with your partner. If your partner wants to have sex all the time, it might make you wonder if your partner is only in it for the sex, or [...] Related articles:Help! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Have Anal Sex! (Video) Q&A: Help! My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Use A Condom! (Video) My Boyfriend Wants To Have Sex Before Marriage But. […]

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XXXtreme Porn Star Party Review - Saturday, 27 February 2010, 8:09 am

As you may have noticed, there have been a lot more parties in the past two months than ever before.  Besides Behind Closed Doors, which is our flagship event aimed at young, very attractive couples and single women, we are holding XXXtreme Events on a monthly basis, which are open to select single men as well as couples and single women, and just launched More to Love catering to voluptuous women and the men who love them.  Even more specialty events are coming within the next two mon. […]

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Q&A: Should We Take Ecstasy To Improve Our Sex Life? (Video) - Saturday, 27 February 2010, 6:29 am

It can be tempting to try just about anything to spice up your sex life. If you’ve heard of ecstasy, you probably know that many people who have taken it have said it gave them the “best sex of their lives.” Is this true? Is ecstasy safe to take? Should you take ecstasy to make [...] Related articles:How Aromatherapy Can Improve Your Sex Life What Are Date Rape Drugs? How Standing On Your Head Can Improve Your Love Life Drastically Improve Your Life With a Little S&M…. […]

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Dr Love - Friday, 26 February 2010, 3:37 pm

Hey sex fans! It’s Product Review Friday once again. Following the trend of the last few weeks we have the pleasure of welcoming a new product line by a new manufacturer…well new to us anyhow. Welcome Futuring International Ltd; a German company that manufacturers fine personal lubricants. Dr Dick Review Crew members — Ken & [...]

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Get MAXXX Personal lube - Friday, 26 February 2010, 3:34 pm

Get MAXXX —— $21.99 Mick & Chuck Mick: “Our package of Get MAXXX clearly states: ‘purest silicon (sic) lubricant, Made in Germany.’ So we weren’t the least bit confused as to what kind of lube this was.” Chuck: “We thought Get MAXXX worked best during our stroke sessions. It lubricates without reducing sensation and that’s [...]

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Dr.Love Silkening Lubricant - Friday, 26 February 2010, 3:21 pm

Dr.Love Silkening Lubricant —— $21.99 Ken & Denise Ken: “This is sure enough a German product. You can tell by just looking at the package. The fine print comes in three languages; the primary one is German. I think they used a computer program for the translation into English.” Denise: “What [...]

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Q&A: Shouldn’t My Girlfriend Want Sex More Often? (Video) - Friday, 26 February 2010, 6:00 am

If your partner wants sex less than you, it can be frustrating. Whether it’s the quality of sex or the quantity of it that is suffering, it’s no fun when she just isn’t that into it. What causes a woman’s sex drive to decrease, or even become non-existent? Is there something wrong? What can you [...] Related articles:How Can I Give My Girlfriend An Orgasm? (Video) Is My Girlfriend Using Me Or Is Her Love Real? (Video) Frantic Girlfriend! How Do I Overcome My FEAR of Sex?. […]

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Call for Literary Art Extended to March 15 - Thursday, 25 February 2010, 3:49 pm

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Q&A: How Can I Get Her To Let Me Finish In Her Mouth? (Video) - Thursday, 25 February 2010, 6:00 am

It’s no secret that guys absolutely love blowjobs. In fact, many men would prefer getting a blowjob to having sex. Some women, however, don’t like giving men oral sex and especially don’t like the idea of swallowing semen when he has an orgasm. Is there any way to get a girl turned on by the [...] Related articles:Oral Sex and Orgasm Dilemma – I Want To Finish In Her Mouth… (Video) How To Improve The Taste Of Your Semen Getting Her To Give You Oral Sex More Often (V. […]

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March Madness – Houston’s Mega Meet-n-Greet #2 - Wednesday, 24 February 2010, 6:50 pm

Update 3/06/10 – Click Here for map and directions to the club Well after well over 500 sexy swingers partied to the hearts content at the last Mega Meet-n-Greet and now,  at the request of many, we are doing it again!  This time we have we are excited to have this meet-n-greet as a debut for a brand [...]

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Q&A: Is My Girl Pregnant? How Can I Tell? (Video) - Wednesday, 24 February 2010, 1:00 pm

Wondering if you got a girl pregnant or not can definitely get you stressed out and worried in an instant. Many women show signs of pregnancy, even in the early stages of pregnancy, and some women show no signs at all. How can you tell if a girl is pregnant? Is there a surefire way [...] Related articles:Is It Safe To Have Sex While My Wife Is Pregnant? (Video) Safe Sex: Can That Clear Fluid Really Get Me Pregnant? (Video) He Pulled Out… Can I Still Get Pregnant? (Video) Help! He DoesnR. […]

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Sex Wisdom with Mark Zedler – Podcast #187 – 02/24/10 - Wednesday, 24 February 2010, 7:17 am

Hey sex fans, I have some absolutely fascinating SEX WISDOM in store for you today. This is just the second installment in this new podcast series. We’re all about connecting with some of the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality. We’re talking with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who [...]

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Q&A: How Can We Spice Up Our Sex Life? (Video) - Wednesday, 24 February 2010, 6:00 am

Often in relationships, especially steady and monogomous relationships, sex can get a little boring or dull. Does that mean your sex life is over, or you have to find a new partner to have a good sex life? Hardly! Here are some great ideas you can incorporate into the bedroom to spice up your sex [...] Related articles:How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship (Video) 4 Secrets Guaranteed To Spice Up Your Sex Life How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship Q&A:. […]

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Media Update - Tuesday, 23 February 2010, 10:58 am

Federal Judge Won’t Dismiss Stagliano Obscenity Case XBIZ Newswire … again has refused to dismiss obscenity charges against John Stagliano and his … rejected their claim that federal obscenity laws are unconstitutional, …    

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Pleasing Your Partner With A Strap On - Tuesday, 23 February 2010, 6:00 am

If you and your partner are looking for something to spice up your sex life, you may want to consider pleasing your partner with a strap on. In this alternative to traditional anal sex, a woman will wear a strap on dildo and please her partner anally, focusing on stimulating the prostate gland. Some men, [...] Related articles:Q&A: My Girlfriend Wants To Do Me With A Strap On (Video) Does Liking Anal Sex With a Strap On Make Me Gay? (Video) What You Need To Know About Anal Sex Toys (Video). […]

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Q&A: Popping A Girl’s Cherry: Will It Bleed? (Video) - Monday, 22 February 2010, 6:00 am

When it comes to losing your virginity or even taking someone else’s virginity, there are often more questions than there are answers. Many teens and young adults want to know how bad it hurts the first time, if you can catch STD’s if you’re both virgins or if you “pop” a girl’s cherry, how bad [...] Related articles:Q&A: Ladies – Masturbation And Your Period (Video) Q&A: Is My Girl Pregnant? How Can I Tell? (Video) Master The Art Of Cunnilingu. […]

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Q&A: Help! My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Use A Condom! (Video) - Sunday, 21 February 2010, 7:37 am

While many couples decide together to use condoms during sex, some couples don’t agree on condom use. Your partner may not be advocating for the use of a condom, or he may actually be downright against it! Some guys don’t like the way sex feels with a condom on, but is that a good reason [...] Related articles:Condoms 101: How To Buy A Condom (Video) Do I Really Need To Wear A Condom? (Video) Frustrated Man Can’t Orgasm Wearing A Condom! (Video) How To Put On A Condom (Video) Q. […]

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Q&A: Do Women Care If Men Have A Large Penis? (Video) - Saturday, 20 February 2010, 3:28 pm

A lot of guys are worried about penis size. Is it too big, is it too small? What do women really like? Each woman prefers something different sexually – some women like it big, others like it smaller, some women like it thick and others don’t. It’s hard to say what women as a whole [...] Related articles:I’m A Virgin – Will My Big Penis Hurt My Partner? (Video) Honestly, Does Penis Size Really Matter? (Video) Is My Penis Too Big To Fit? (Video) Q&A: What Is A N. […]

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Q&A: What Are Those Bumps On My Penis? (Video) - Saturday, 20 February 2010, 7:47 am

Finding something on your penis that you didn’t expect to see there – such as bumps or discharge – can be terrifying. Is it a sexually transmitted disease? What if you’ve never had sex before? What do you do next? It’s impossible to know exactly what is going on with your body until you see [...] Related articles:Q&A: What Is A Normal Penis Size? (Video) Is My Penis Too Big To Fit? (Video) Q&A: Can I Get STD’s If We’re Both Virgins? (Video) Q&#. […]

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Crystal Delights Blue Anal Plug - Friday, 19 February 2010, 10:21 am

Crystal Delights Blue Anal Plug —— $79.98 Dr Dick Friends, are you tired of not having anything dazzling to wear on those special occasions when you want to look and feel your best? Ya know, like when you’re runnin’ the Hoover, taking out the trash (rubbish or BF), or pickin out something butch at Home Depot? [...]

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Media Update - Thursday, 18 February 2010, 11:24 am

  Bloomington man sentenced to 30 years for manslaughter Indiana Daily Student Gary Dunn, a former FBI agent and private investigator hired by the defense, said Laurie Moore was in contact with several men she met on the BDSM Web site, …

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Revenge of the Siren Song — Part Six — Interlude - Thursday, 18 February 2010, 3:59 am

 .. …. .. It had been raining heavily and without stop for two days. Blessedly, it had given New Providence a respite from the oppressive humid heat and seemed to be washing away…

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The Business of Swinging – A Much Uglier View - Wednesday, 17 February 2010, 2:47 pm

Recently, Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have become a little more exposed to the business side of the Lifestyle and it is not near as pretty or as fun.   It just seems when money is involved it takes all the fun out.  Your response may be, “Well simple, just don’t do it for the money!”  We absolutely [...]

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Media Update - Tuesday, 16 February 2010, 8:22 am

The Women of Leather: Bringing a Sub-Subculture to Light EDGE Boston Califia founded Samois, a lesbian-feminist BDSM organization, in 1978. It was one of the first such organizations for the subculture, and its tradition …     The latest cruise industry trend: Voyages with sex as a theme USA Today The cruise came just months after what was billed as the first [...]

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Okeido and Birds ‘N Bees vegan condoms - Friday, 12 February 2010, 4:34 pm

Okeido 3-Pack —— $6.00 Brad I’m not one of those guys who throws a hissy fit over having to wear a condom when I fuck. I happen to think it’s a sign of respect to the lady I’m about to bone. She doesn’t always know where my johnson has been and I rarely know [...]

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