Genital hygiene is a big issue for both men and women. Of course you want to be clean and fresh for your partner before sex, but what about pubic hair? Is it better to let it all grow wild or shave your genitals off bald? Or is it even better to do the in-between and [...]

More and more people are “opening up” their marriages to other partners. Some people call themselves polyamorists, swingers, or just simply members of the Kennedy family. But is that right for you? What are the upsides and downsides to this arrangement? We’ll answer all your romantic queries in just a few short minutes. What She [...] Related articles:How Do We know If An Open Marriage Is Right For Us? (Video) Open Marriage – How Can I Convince My Husband? (Video) Did Your Marriage F. […]

“Canceled Swingers Convention Gets Tall City Neighbors Talking” NewsWest9.com A group hosting a swingers convention found out the welcome mat won’t be rolled out in Midland. The event prompted, not only an investigation by the …

‘Sex Week’ Should Arouse Caution Most of All The Chronicle of Higher Education (commentary) Sex-toy raffles and giveaways? Workshops featuring graphic, violent pornography and simulated sex techniques? Teaching about polyamory but not about monogamy or abstinence? All those events have transpired recently on campuses across the country—perhaps unbeknownst to many parents, alumni, and even professors. [...]

Going from a busy, stressful day to sex without some time to wind down may leave you thinking about everything during sex but sex! If you find this happening to you, you’re not alone. Here’s how you can stop thinking about your to-do list, chores, television and bills and start thinking about having great, satisfying [...] Related articles:Q&A: I Feel No Relief When Masturbating – Am I Doing It Wrong? (Video) Q&A: I Feel Guilty If My Girlfriend Doesn’t Climax (V. […]

Is Monogamy Unnatural? The Atlantic (review of Sex at Dawn) “…Lifetime monogamy may not be the evolved human template. But I’m pretty sure that carefree polyamory isn’t either. And at some level, who cares? Rape seems to be pretty “natural”, but I’d still like to build social institutions that fight this “natural instinct”. The book [...]

“Kansas: County May Track Partners in HIV Case“ TheBody.com “A lot of people don’t openly say, ‘Yeah, we’re swingers. We hit these parties all the time.’” US District Court documents allege the man “engaged in …

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“Accused Swinger Suspected Of Exposing Partners To HIV“ KAKE Documents say it happened at swingers parties. The health department says it’s working closely with the Air Force. The court papers also list two victims …

Making first time sex special is a concern for many couples who ready for sex but haven’t taken that big plunge yet. Many guys are worried that their girlfriend won’t find the first time pleasurable, and they’re afraid of sex being uncomfortable for her. Here’s how you can make the first time – or any [...] Related articles:The Key To Giving Women Multiple Orgasms (Video) Q&A: I Feel Guilty If My Girlfriend Doesn’t Climax (Video) How To Make A Woman Clima. […]

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Podcasts will resume next Monday, September 6th. Deviating from the norm. Is it worth it? Since the launch of the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series in early 2009; I’ve been hearing from a lot of people who are considering opening their relationships to include additional partners to augment their primary relationships. People point to the increasing media attention polyamory is garnering as a way of justifying their interest. It’s true; polyamory is enjoying an efflorescence in popular cultur. […]

Sex feels great, so it’s natural to wonder if sex does any more than just feel good. The good news is that it does! Sex can help just about every aspect of your life including physically, mentally and in your relationship. Here’s how great sex can be great for your body and why you need [...] Related articles:Spiritual Sex: Reuniting Body And Soul For A Whole Body Orgasm Absence Makes the Heart (and Body) Grow Fonder How To Use Body Language to Attract Women Guys: Body Language Basic. […]

Premauture ejaculation is a common issue for many men, both young and old. There’s nothing wrong with reaching orgasm quickly during sex, although, it can definitely put a damper on a couple’s sex life if he’s going too fast for her. Here’s how you can slow it down and last longer in bed so she can [...] Related articles:Premature Ejaculation Problems? Try the Triple ‘S’ Technique to Last Longer in Bed Premature Ejaculation: What To Do When IT Happens (Video). […]

The clitoris is known to be elusive to many men, however, finding it and stimulating it is one of the greatest pleasures you can give a girl. Many women aren’t even able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation! Here’s how to find the clitoris, how best to stimulate it and how you can avoid the #1 [...] Related articles:Clitoris 101: 3 Things Men Need to Know about the Clitoris Female Orgasm Tip #6 – Clitoral Circles (Video) Female Orgasm Tip #2 – How To Build Sexual Excite. […]

“The Old Masters: BDSM’s Popularity Grows Among Senior Citizens” Gapers Block He’s been to The Sins Center before and I, well, I have never been to a BDSM club. “So tell me again about the last time you were there,” I ask. … “Distributor pleads guilty to obscenity but says it was an accident” Pittsburgh [...]

Why Do People Choose Polyamory? Psychology Today Just as there are many different forms a polyamorous relationship can take, there are many different reasons people choose polyamory. We’re not always conscious of the reasons we do things, and sometimes we even make up reasons which have little to do with our real motivations. Full article>>>

One of the enduring hot-button issues in our culture (and every other culture) is sexually explicit material. Everyone has an opinion on what we, as a society, ought to allow—and what should be prohibited. Everyone has an opinion, but not all opinions are formed through sound reasoning. More often than not, our opinions are visceral responses to things that frighten us, or that we don’t understand. And if we don’t like it, don’t understand it, or it puts us off, why, that’s reason enou. […]

A woman’s body goes through several monumental changes when she becomes pregnant and has a baby. Not only does she have mood swings and weird food cravings, she’s also going to have larger breasts and – eek! – a looser vagina if she gives birth naturally. Is this something that is permanent or is everything [...] Related articles:Q&A: Having A Baby – Will Her Vagina And Breasts Be Bigger? (Video) Does Sex Always Equal Babies? (Video) My Vagina Is Too Small To E. […]

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It’s the question asked ‘round the world, by men and women everywhere, how can I talk to my partner about…(fill in the blank with some sort of open marriage revolving thing.) It’s no wonder, with the near universal yearning for variety, and that often bubbling below the surface desire to see your partner with another [...] Related articles:Sex Poll: Would You Consider Swinging or Threesomes? Are You Dabbling With The Idea Of Swinging? The Psychology Of Swinging – What’s A. […]

I have just the thing for all you folks out there who are in a relationship. If you’re like every other couple I know, you have your share of tension. And let’s face it—tension leads to fighting. And fighting, if not done fairly, can lead to hurting your partner—even if that’s not your intention. Here are Cheryl and Vern; they have a problem: Doc, We’ve been married for 11 years and have two great kids, ages 4 and 7. We both have full-time jobs, so family life is at a premium. Lately. […]

Podcasts will resume on Monday, September 6th. Name: Tomasz Gender: Age: 64 Location: Budapest Are there any vitamins or minerals that will increase the amount of ejaculate? Thanks…your site is very nice and provides a great service! Why, aren’t you a sweetheart, Tomasz! Thank you for your kind words. There are loads and loads of companies out there who claim to have products that will increase the volume of a man’s ejaculate. But when I search the web for products that promote male se. […]

One too many lovers Boston Globe What your daughter and her husband are doing is definitely an experiment, but not necessarily a doomed one; many poly relationships last for years, and there are lots of communities online and off to help polyamorists learn the communication and logistical skills they need. Full column…

Finding the right size condom for your penis can be difficult, especially if you’re a little larger than average in girth or length. There are a variety of larger condoms available, but some are better for wider penises and others are better for penises that are longer. Also, you want to make sure that the [...] Related articles:Condoms 101: How To Buy A Condom (Video) Q&A: 5 Ways To Make Condoms More Sexy (Video) Q&A: How Old Do You Have To Be To Buy Condoms (Video) Why Condoms. […]

Every guy knows (or secretly admits) that he has shortcomings when it comes to sex. Maybe it’s the incapacity to make a girl climax, maybe it’s the fact that he gets off after just 2 minutes, or maybe it’s that he just can’t get it up long enough to please his girl. Whatever your sex-related [...] Related articles:Preventing Premature Ejaculation – Are These 4 Myths Killing Your Sexual Stamina in Bed? How To Boost Your Sexual Stamina – Use These 3 Killer “P” Techn. […]

Name: Valeri Gender: Female Age: 38 Location: Dubuque IA Dr Dick: I just went through a very painful divorce. My husband of 18 years up and decided that he wanted to start over…in a new job, in a new state with a new girlfriend, someone 12 years his junior. I must be completely blind, because I didn’t see any of this coming. Sure we had our problems, what marriage doesn’t? I want to move on too, but I feel so stuck. I feel like this big loser. The …

  It’s story time!  LOL! Once upon a time, we were at the Velvet Curtain, a lifestyle club in Dallas, with a hot couple that we’d had gotten to know really well over the past several weeks and had played with them many times.  We hung out, did some dancing, blah, blah, blah, and eventually [...]

SexualityToday interviews Sex at Dawn author Christopher Ryan on prehistoric polyamory Psychology Today We moderns tend to think of sexuality as the province of more-or-less monogamous couples, bound together by bonds of love, romantic possessiveness, and jealousy. But according to Sex at Dawn authors Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha, before 10,000 years ago the basic [...]

Hey sex fans, My friend, the exceptional educator, Sophia Sky, returns today with more of her excellent SEX WISDOM. I love talking to Sophia; she is so accessible and down to earth.  Yet her knowledge and perceptions on a wide range of topics are so insightful you can tell that they are the result of a life thoughtfully lived. But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation that appeared here last week at this time, did you? Well don’t worry if ya did, because you can find it …

Sex for men is a lot like revving up an engine and going full throttle until the finish line, but for women, it’s more like a leisurely ride by the coast, enjoying the scenery and stopping every once in a while for an ice cream or two. This difference in the way men and women perceive [...] Related articles:How To Give A Hand Job: A Quick Guide On How To Give Him Some Manual Love How to Approach Any Woman Without Fear of Rejection – Pick Up Secrets Exposed by a Woman How To Please Your. […]

My readers know that I absolutely love porn.  My preference is the juicy stuff — gangbangs, big dicks, and so on. Over the years, porn has had a great influence over technology adoption (e.g. favoring VHS over Betamax due to its length; early pay-per-view use was primarily for porn, etc.).  And now, Hong Kong is leading the way in 3D –No ordinary porn flick, “3-D Sex & Zen: Extreme Ecstasy” is being touted as the world’s first IMAX-3-D erotic film.First out of the. […]

Many changes happen to a woman’s body during pregnancy. It’s definitely an eye opening process for a woman, however, it can be downright scary for their partners. Many guys want to know what happens to his lady’s special parts when she gets pregnant and has a baby, and if the sex will feel different for [...] Related articles:Q&A: Does A Woman’s Vagina Get Looser After Having Babies? (Video) Help! He Doesn’t Want Anything To Do With My Baby! (Video) Is It Safe. […]

Let’s face it. You have no lack of options in bed when it comes to treating treating premature ejaculation. But before we move on to examine the various alternatives and what makes a good cure, it is important to properly understand what premature ejaculation really is – and if you are really suffering from it. You [...] Related articles:Preventing Premature Ejaculation – Are These 4 Myths Killing Your Sexual Stamina in Bed? How To Use The REAL Distraction Principle To Boost Y. […]

Introducing your partner to BDSM and domination can be incredibly intimidating. Your partner may be shy about trying new things in the bedroom, or they may flat out think that BDSM is too freaky. Either way, it’s possible to warm your boyfriend or girlfriend up to domination and bondage if you play your cards right. [...] Related articles:How Do I Introduce BDSM To My Boyfriend? (Video) How To Introduce Your Girl To Bondage (Video) Q&A: BDSM and Fetishes – When Your Fantasies Do. […]

If you want to become a sex god, you won’t get far unless you know the differences between the sex positions. These differences may have something to do with the way the position increases sexual pleasure and urge, or the difficulty of the sex position. No two sex positions are the same when it comes [...] Related articles:The Best Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm Quicker Best Sex Positions For Losing Weight Best Sex Positions To Last Longer In Bed – Are You Ready For Explosive Sexua. […]

Making love is a sacred, tender act that creates an emotional bond between a couple. But for many men, the inability to last long enough often creates anxious moments in between the sheets instead. Many guys want to improve their sexual stamina and last longer during sex, thinking this is the only way to fulfill [...] Related articles:Blowjobs 101: What Your Man Secretly Wishes You Knew About Oral Sex… Blow His Mind Tonight Book Review 3 Lovemaking Tips To Blow Her Mind (Video) Q&A: S. […]

One of the hardest things to do in a long distance relationship is achieve any real level of physical intimacy. Even arranging meeting face to face as often as possible isn’t going to cut it if you’re going long distance for any significant period of time. Phone sex can definitely get boring, so here’s how [...] Related articles:Q&A: Long Distance Sex Toys – a.k.a. Teledildonics (Video) Q&A: How To Cope With A Long Distance Relationship (Video) Q&A: Long Di. […]

Losing your virginity is a big step, and it’s one that you have to be emotionally and physically ready for. If you’re being pressured to have sex with someone and you’re a virgin, you may be tempted to lose your virginity just to get it “over with.” Fortunately, you don’t have to take that approach to [...] Related articles:Are You Ready For Sex? (You Don’t Have To Be A Virgin To Answer This Question) I’m A Virgin – Will My Big Penis Hurt My. […]

If you are in your twenties and you have a low sex drive, you are not alone. So many women are struggling to keep up with their man when it comes to getting intimate. Men are complaining all the time about having to make do with their hands or having to wait until she runs [...] Related articles:Q&A: Female Orgasm – I Could Never Make My Ex Climax (Video) The Female Libido Exposed 3 Things All Men Need To Know About The Female Orgasm The Skinny On Female Genital Piercings Top 10 Femal. […]

In the words of Robin Willaims, “Good Mooooorrrrnnning Swwwiiinnngtown” Today we would like to introduce you to a new Lifestyle podcast launched several weeks ago by a sexy couple we met on our Party Barge at the Butts, Boobs, and Boats event in Lake Travis back in July.  This sexy couple is relatively new to swinging and [...]

Well, another notch on the bedpost…not really! But another year of Butts, Boobs, and Boats (BBB) is under our belt and it was a fantastic event. Let me start by saying that our review only includes the activities that took place at The Hampton hotel in which we stayed. We did not make it over to [...]

Clone-A-Willy Kit Glow in the Dark —— $44.95 Ken & Denise Ken: “We didn’t exactly know what we were getting into with this Clone-A-Willy Kit. It promises a lifelike replica of my dick that would Glow in the Dark. I was game, at least initially.” Denise: “Yeah, we thought it would be a fun little project full of laughs. Well that’s how it started out anyway.” Ken: “Since I was the one being ‘molded’, the pressure was on me to maintain an erection under less than erotic .. […]

Clone-A-Willy Kit Original —— $39.95 Glenn & Hank Glenn: “What’s more fun than buying yourself a sex toy? Making your own, that’s what.” Hank: “Glenn nearly wet himself when he caught sight of the Clone-A-Willy Kit. He can’t help it; he fancies himself a regular Martha Stewart. I swear this man can make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear.” Glenn: “Awww, see how you are? Isn’t he sweet? It’s true though, I got an instant hardon thinking about cloning Hank’s willie.”. […]

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As you may recall Gentle Nibbles has made some enemies within the ranks of the morally right and high minded which manifested in our Facebook page being sacrificed upon their altar several weeks ago. Well, like Lazarus and Jesus himself our Facebook page has been reborn. I would say it is new, improved, bigger, and better but [...]

We have been coming up with a humorous list of why “Sex is a Good Thing” for a new project we are working on.  We want to share the list with you to hopefully give you a laugh, but to also get your help. After reading the list please leave us your funny comments on why you think “Sex [...]

Silicone Taffy Tickler Water G —— $25.19 Karen I took the Silicone Taffy Tickler Water G from its packaging hoping against hope that the prickly surface of the toy would be soft and pliable. But my hopes were soon dashed. I wondered to myself; who designed this thing, the Marquis de Sade? And if the Taffy Tickler is really made of silicone as the package says, I’ll eat my hat. It doesn’t feel or smell like any of the other quality silicone toys I own. The Taffy …